Friday, August 24, 2007

Love In The Weekends – How To Create a Lasting Impact On Your Girlfriend In 2 Days

Save for the occasional holidays, as an NS man you only get to see your girlfriend during the weekend when you are booked out.

I know, many of you make use of this time to run errands, chill out with friends, stone in front of the TV, computer etc. Oh! You will probably use half a day to catch up on sleep, am I right?

And for some of you who have a girlfriend, you have one more party to apportion your time to. So, how can you maximize the 2 days to create a lasting effect on your loved one?

As a love coach, I have clients asking me to give them some tips. In my book I gave a total of 69. Let me see how I can take some of the 69 love secrets and modify them to suit this occasion.

It’s like a long-distance relationship

Even though you are in Singapore, but due to the nature of serving NS, there could be times when you may be totally uncontactable. Imagine you are now overseas, how would you spend those precious times you have with your girlfriend when you’re back for a holiday?

Besides pleasing her with gifts and giving her your full attention, one thing for sure is, you will do your best to cut short the arguing time, or to prevent them totally. 

It’s the thought that counts

Have you ever sent her positive and loving thoughts right before you are due to meet her? Why not give this a shot and see if she’ll feel anything different.

Vibes are contagious, especially if they are full of loving and happy molecules. It’s really the thought that counts, at times.

Tell her stories

And continue them the next time you meet her. Curiousity may kill the cat, but it certainly helps to create suspense, and thus, excitement in a relationship. Use it to your advantage.

Break her bones

I mean, make her laugh so hard till she breaks her bones. Such bursts of laughter will make her feel that time passes quickly. And what does this mean for you? It means she will be looking forward to the next weekend!

Work on projects

Create some projects that both of you can indulge in, for example, building a model plane together or doing a mega jigsaw puzzle. In this way, both of you have something to engage in and to look forward to.

When the project is done, find another one to work on. You’d be surprised at how much bonding such activities can bring you, not to mention the amount of new things you can learn too!

Looks like some amount of thinking needs to be expended on your side if you want to wow your girlfriend over a mere 2 days, and to allow that effect to last till the next one.

I hope this article helps to stimulate your creativity cells.

Till the next one…